Approaching the topic of senior living with a parent or family member can be emotional and unpredictable. Some people may be caught off guard by the conversation, while others may have been considering the option themselves. However, discussing this lifestyle change with confidence, patience, and compassion can significantly impact the outcome.
Here are some tips to help you start the conversation about senior living with someone you love:
Mom or Dad may be hesitant about moving into a senior living community. They may be reluctant to leave their current home, or they may not feel like senior living is necessary. By preparing for the conversation, you can share experiences that highlight their need for additional care and the benefits this change can bring. For instance, if home maintenance has become taxing for Dad, you can emphasize the maintenance-free lifestyle that senior living offers.
Moving to a senior living community is a significant change; people often focus on what they will be “losing” instead of gaining. Emphasize the benefits of transitioning into a senior living community and how this lifestyle change can enhance their days, such as access to personalized care, opportunities for connection, no more home maintenance or upkeep, and on-site community amenities.
When talking about senior living, listen to what your parent or family member has to say instead of making the conversation one-sided. This is a significant decision, so put yourself in their shoes and understand their feelings, whether excitement, worry, or something else.
The topic of senior living is not a conversation that should happen all at once, and Mom and Dad shouldn’t feel pressured to make a decision in the moment. Instead, find opportunities to keep the conversation alive so your parent or family member feels free to talk about everything they feel throughout the process.
With all the decisions you need to make in choosing an assisted living or memory care community, we want to ensure you and your family have all the information you need. Submit a request for more information, and our team will be in touch with you.
We want to help you or someone you love lead a life of comfort, connection, and support. We are here to create a community where older adults can thrive and live fulfilling lives, and we would be honored to be a part of your journey.
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